Got the phone call....We are not pregnant. It hit us real hard. I was so sure it worked. It caught me totally offguard. Everything was perfect. There is no other reason other than luck, and luck just wasn't with us this time.
Right now we are just going to be sad. We are heartbroken and trying to muster up enough between the two of us to formulate our next plan. We will figure it out. Our time is not now, but it will come one of these days. ...but right now we just need to be sad.
Katie- its Jerseygyrl from our forum.. I just wanted you to know that you are in my prayers and that I prayed for you last night and will be doing so that you have peace and healing, both you and your husband.. Take care! Tonya
ReplyDeleteKatie, I have been thinking about you so much. I wish there were comfort I could give but for right now I know that, as you so wisely put it above, you just have to be sad. After my stillbirth my yoga teacher advised me to cry every tear without holding back and that's what I did. I would love to do some yoga with you when you feel up to it. There's a lot that we can do to help the grief flow through and make room for something new. Until then, we at the Moon are keeping you and Pat in our thoughts and prayers. Peace, Beth
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